Frequently Asked Questions
Before You Enter My World
Welcome to my Dungeon, the place for refined dominance and depth in submission.
Here I answer the most frequently asked questions, so you know what to expect before you enter my world.
Frequently Asked Questions
How Can I Pay?
Payments are processed securely via a payment link that I send personally.
You will receive this once we have agreed on a service or video. Online services can exceptionally also be paid with a gift card for 10% above the session price.
What are your Boundaries?
Nothing illegal, no sexual acts. Further specific wishes and boundaries can be found here. Specific question? Message me on WhatsApp or via the contact form.
What are your Personal Preferences?
You can read more about that here and also experience it in my videos.
Do I Need Experience in BDSM?
No, beginners are also welcome. Here you can read more about online sessions, and here about the content and process of a real life session.
How Does a Real Life Session Proceed?
Here you will find information about the process of a real life session.
How Does an Online Chat or Video Call Session Proceed?
Here you will find information about the process of a real life session.
How Can I Contact You?
All requests go through WhatsApp or via the contact form. You can contact me directly for questions, bookings or requests. Say briefly and clearly what you are looking for.
How Do I Book a Session?
Send me a message via WhatsApp or the contact form and briefly tell me what you are looking for, what experience you have and what your boundaries are. After approval you will receive the payment details and further instructions.
Read more about the process at:
🔗 Online Services
🔗 Real Life Sessions
Do You Work with Beginners?
Yes. Whether you are a curious beginner or an experienced submissive, I tailor my guidance to your experience and boundaries. I guide you with calm, clarity and refinement, step by step.
Read more about Online Sessions or Real Life Sessions.
I Want to Give You a Gift, how Do I Do that?
A gift is more than a gesture, it is a form of tribute, respect and attention. Those who want to thank or spoil me can do so via my wishlist or a direct tribute.
🎁 View my Wishlist
💸 Make a Cash Tribute
Do You also Do Dates or Collaborations?
No. I exclusively offer professional domina sessions. I do not make joint videos and do not work with people who have a dating or relationship-oriented approach. My work revolves around dominance and submission, not romance or sex.
Do You Work with Men, Women and Non-Binary People?
Certainly. Everyone who enters my world with respect, openness and curiosity is welcome.
Do You Give Sessions to Couples, Throuples and Poly Groups?
Yes, I would very much like that. I find it special to guide lovers and especially together with my husband or befriended mistresses.
Who is Mistress Jade may?
I am an experienced (online) Dominatrix, Tantrica and workshop facilitator, based in The Hague.
I work with awareness, refinement and power, where control, pleasure and growth merge.
Read more about me on the About Jade page
Where Do You Work?
My real life sessions take place in my permanent, discrete studio in The Hague.
Online sessions proceed via WhatsApp chat or video calling, so you can meet me wherever you are.
Safety, Boundaries and Experience
How Do You Ensure Safety During a Session?
Safety and consent are always central. During sessions I work with a traffic light system and a counting method to keep boundaries clear. I remain attuned to breathing, body and energy. Afterwards I always offer aftercare.
What are your Boundaries as a Mistress?
I do nothing that is illegal and no form of sex. No drugs, alcohol, blood or permanent damage. My work revolves around mental and physical experience, not sex. Read the complete overview at Boundaries and Guidelines.
What are your Preferences as a Mistress?
I enjoy the refined tension between power and submission. My favorite forms of play are -but certainly not limited to- findom, femdom, female supremacy, impact play, pegging, anal play, worship, bondage, edging, sissy play, foot fetish and mental training. Always within the agreed boundaries and with full attention to the energy between us.
Any Questions?
Do not hesitate.
📲 Send me a message on WhatsApp
📩 Use the contact form
Your true climax begins with letting go of control
Ready to Turn Theory into Experience?
You now know what to expect.
The next step is to feel — truly feel.
Whether you choose an online session, a real-life meeting, or a custom video: every experience under my guidance is personal, discreet, and unforgettable.
Choose how you experience me
Online, wherever you are. Or in my presence, in The Hague.
Online
Chat sessions, tasks and video calls. Personal, discreet and fully tailored to you.
In person
High-end sessions in The Hague. Tailored, with clear agreements and my full attention.