Mistress JadeMay

High-class BDSM sessions in The Hague & personalized online experiences.

The woman at who you surrender to

I am Mistress Jade May. I am an experienced dominatrix, tantric practitioner, workshop leader, and lifestyle dominatrix.

I lead with intuition, elegance, and playful sharpness. In my world, surrender is not a weakness, but an act of courage.

I enjoy watching you grow—both as a submissive and as a person.

I love Subs who are intrinsically motivated and find fulfillment in enriching my life.

My Way of Dominating

My dominance thrives on contrast—between hard and soft, refinement and raw intensity, playfulness and discipline.

I enjoy psychological games played with intention. Always with keen attention, fun as my guide, and a smile.

Because surrender requires trust. And dominance requires responsibility.

The Foundations of my power

Mental Reprogramming

I will guide you to move beyond your own desires and needs, let go of self-centered patterns, and prioritize service, discipline, and dedication, so that true surrender can emerge.

Refined Tuning

It’s all in the details. I can read you like a book—even between the lines. That’s exactly where I create the conditions that allow you to let yourself go completely. My touch can be gentle, firm, or anything in between—but never firm just for the sake of being firm.

Clear Communication

I work with clear agreements and transparent communication, always putting consent first. You’ll know what to expect both beforehand and during the session. Don’t confuse this with predictability.

Reviews

Read my subscribers’ experiences here.

Four months ago, I playfully reached out to Miss Jade—an intense and genuine online adventure. The open communication, natural dominance, and genuine attention immediately fostered trust and a lively connection. During the training sessions—via app, assignments, phone calls, and video calls—I felt time and again that Mistress Jade is the real deal.

As we explored my preferences and boundaries together, the game became deeper, more exciting, and more personal.

Thanks again, Mistress Jade.

Anonymous

Mistress Jade knows exactly how to guide you, challenge you, and help you grow. Her dominance feels natural, and her guidance is both safe and exciting. It was with her that I discovered my kink for anal play—from that very first tentative finger to now confidently using a full strap-on.

A true, skilled mistress who knows your limits… and pushes them in the most delightful way.

Anonymous

As a 40-year-old man with extensive experience in kink, I can honestly say that Miss Jade brings something unique. She is creative, precise, and knows how to build a session to maximum intensity. Under her guidance, I discovered my kink for edging and enhancing my orgasms. What started as subtle instructions grew into in-depth, fully controlled sessions where every moment was carefully utilized.

Her professionalism, dominant presence, and playful creativity make her a Domina who surprises even a seasoned player.

Anonymous

We came to Miss Jade as a couple, with my partner wanting to be pegged and me curious to explore my dominant side. From the very first moment, she understood our dynamic perfectly. Under her guidance I discovered how to use a whip, communication, bondage and the psychological side of being dominant.

Thanks to Miss Jade, my partner dares to surrender completely, and I now feel much more confident in leading and dominating. Highly recommended if you want to discover new things to play with in the bedroom!

Anonymous

How to honour your Mistress

A gift is more than a gesture. It shows that you respect me, that you take me seriously, that you want to please me. I appreciate that, and it never goes unnoticed.

Spoil me with a tribute or choose something from my wishlist. Those who know how to honour also know: true pleasure begins with giving.

The Foundations of my services

High-class

Refinement, attention to detail, and an exclusive experience centered on quality.

Personal

A session with me is a completely customized experience, tailored to your background, needs, kinks, and desires.

Draft

My dominance goes beyond fulfilling a fetish or kink. I challenge you to discover yourself, let go of control, and experience new aspects of your submission.

Experience my dominant side

Discover my services

Chat Sessions & Video Calls

Personal, discreet, and tailored to your desires.

Real-life sessions

High-end real-life BDSM experiences

Videos

Choose from my existing video collection or have a custom video made.

Choose how you experience me

Online, wherever you are. Or in my presence, in The Hague.

Online

Chat sessions, tasks and video calls. Personal, discreet and fully tailored to you.

In person

High-end sessions in The Hague. Tailored, with clear agreements and my full attention.